Forgiveness is only healthy when you eat it with a bowl of cereal!
I know how hard it is to forgive, thats one of the main key's in getting over an issue that you may have. If your ever expecting to get through a hard time in your life you need to realize that you cant get through this prtoblewm without forgiving, whether that be your past, a person, or even yourself. But this is what we mainly struggle with, because we choose not to let go of the hurt or pain someone put us through so we like to keep hold of that heartache they might have put us through.
I think that a main factor that stands in our way is our own pride We think that forgiving someone lets them know that they won, or that they have power over you..but really when you keep hold of that grudge and unforgivness for the other person, they actually had power over you the whole time.
You know how people say "top forgive is to forget" i think that is a false statement. Because your always going to remember what that person did to you, and thats a mark in your life that wont be eraseable. But just because you are unable to forget does not mean that your going to bring that mistake or issue up again every time you face that person who may have caused you pain. This is when you grow up a little and forgive those that hurt your wounded heart and mend your heart once more by letting the past be behind you and picking yourself right back up to walk that long road of life.
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